Treating Menopause Naturally

Broken Heart?

I'm a 37 year old woman going out with a 27 year man. We are very much in love and he treats me like an angel. He tells me everyday how beautiful i am and how lucky he is to have me in his life. He would like to get married some day and have children but i have a problem. I started early menopause when i was 23 years old. I asked my doctor what were my chances for having children and the only method would be artificial insemination and even that might not work. My dream of having children was shattered and i know that i can always adopt but i wish so bad that i could carry a child inside of me and feel it grow. I also don't think that my boyfriend understands that i probably can't have any children cause last night he tells me that he wants children soon and when i mentioned to him that we might have to adopt, he said that he would rather have a child naturally. It really makes me sad. I sometimes think that maybe i should let him go so he can have a real woman. What should i do?

first of all.. YOU ARE A REAL WOMAN!!! talk to him, let him know how your feeling, talk about your options.. i'm sure he will understand... i know artificial insemination cost a lot of money... so its not a choice for a lot of people... but adoption is one of the greatest gifts you gould give to somebody, often you can meet with the parents, know their story, decide weather you want an open adoption and so on... dont down play adoption.. i have friends who have been adopted and they say it was the best thing that ever happened to them... i also have family that have had to give up children for adoption, and for them it was the best thing for them.... your giving a child a chance for life

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