sexually transmitted decease Herpes. What is it, when it occurs, symptoms etc. Is it worse than AIDS.?

I am 42 and involved in sex with a widow of 52 in her menopause. My wife is 40 and involve with me occasionally. I donot use condom when with widow, but when in 7-11 effect, I use condoms when with my wife.

Why use condoms with your wife and not with the widow, you cut your risk of getting stds and pregnancy when you use one.
Herpes is a simplex virus and sexually transmitted disease. It can affect any one at any age, once you have it you have it for life.
Herpes is no where near worse then HIV since it's not life threatening. There is some pain involved with the initial out break, but usually out breaks get less sever over time. Herpes usually takes between 2-20 days to develop symptoms.
Symptoms usually include
Itching, burning and or tingling around the genitals.
Swollen genitals.
Flu like symptoms (including aches and pains over the body with fever).
Burning pain and or trouble peeing
Raised white blisters, open cuts or sores appear on the genitals, or inner things, or buttocks and or anus.