Men Surviving Menopause

What is the best way for a man to survive his wife going through menopause?

Keep your head down as to make for a low vis target, just smile and say yes dear, always have a first aid kit with you at all times for you not her, never turn your back to her when she is talking or not, get a verbal abuse resistant suit including head protection and face shield, loose her in the woods for 4 years, there must be a resonable answer out there?

Just try to be understanding and remember no matter how hard or bad it is for you, it is much worse for her.

She is having Hot Flashes, mood swings she does not understand and she if feeling very un-feminine and un-sexy. She knows she is being difficult and she is scared of driving you away. Her body is changing and it is a sign she is getting older and it does not make her happy.

Try to treat her as normal as possible and ignore the changes in her. Be sympathetic but treat her the same as if you just met her and just fell madly in love with her, as often as possible. Be there for her but don't smother her with kindness. Believe it or not it does not last that long, especially if she gets help from a doctor with medication and hormones.

Be patient, your beautiful loving wife will be back to you in time.

Good Luck

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