Male Menopause And Relationships

Is my middle-aged, masculine husband turning Gay?

Can such a thing happen? We've been married for18 years, & I've always loved sex. He has 3 kids from a previous marriage, & seems very masculine and macho....but he admits to looking at gay porn and chatting online with gay men! What the heck is happening to him? He's always been very outspoken about not condoning gay/lesbian relationships, yet he seems to prefer looking at men's 'equipment' over looking at mine! So, I'm hurt, confused and jealous when he tells me it's nothing to worry about. Should I be worried? Is this part of 'male menopause, or a sign of depression, or is he so totally bored with our sex life that he only gets turned on by pretending he's gay? We're in our middle 50's and I've used up all the sex tricks I know. I'm so damned confused that I just feel like crying! I want my husband back, but I'm no match for straight internet porn, let alone gay porn!

Your marriage is in a crisis. I am very sorry to be so blunt. You need to seek a professional to talk to about this, as hetero men do not- to my knowledge- frequent and participate in internet gay porn.

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